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from one’s problems. It now causes 20% of the deaths of young people in the UK. The highest rates are for men 25 to 45 and over 75. Young white women have a risk only about a quarter of that for men and black women have a risk only half that of white women. Soldiers in George W. Bush’s war had twice the rate of suicide as soldiers had before the war started. More and longer deployments in Iraq or Afghanistan and marital problems caused by their absence from home were cited as the causes. Soldiers had four times the normal American rate of 4.4 deaths per 100,000 people per year. The rates in Hungary and Sri Lanka were about the same as for American soldiers. But the rate for residents of the UK was only 3.2 per 100,000.
“This brief list of psychological adjustments to stress should give you a bit of an idea of some of the ways people make unhealthy adjustments to their stresses or their psychological insufficiencies. Like I said, most of these can be done within a normal range or to the level of mental illness.”
—“Are you saying that you can commit suicide to a normal degree?”
—“Con, you’re pushing my buttons! But good point. Maybe telling someone that you want to commit suicide could be in the normal range, probably the far end of normal. But swallowing a jar of barbiturates or putting a gun in your mouth and pulling the trigger are way out past any normal adjustment. But the reality is that we all adjust and our individual adjustment patterns are not identical. Each of us tends to react in ways that have worked for us—either attacking or withdrawing from reality. So if hitting somebody keeps working, you will probably keep doing it. If shooting up with heroin or getting drunk works, I’ll keep doing it. But if somebody beats me up or if my friends convince me that I’m an alcoholic, I may change my adjustment patterns.
“Whether I have problems at work or in my relationships, I will adjust. But my adjustments